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Old 09-26-2007, 08:21 PM   #51 (permalink)
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Bear pretty much said it all. But, I will add my 2 pennies for what they are worth.

I have been a member of this site since almost the beginning. The friends I have made here and the atmosphere I have enjoyed here are why I stay.

The atmosphere is one of many people of different backgrounds and skill levels who share a passion for fishing. You can ask questions no matter how dumb they may feel to you (and I have asked my share believe me) and you will get honest helpful answers from people honestly hope to see you increase your knowledge, understanding and skill and therefore, help improve the sport.

(Sorry this isn't flowing more smoothly, I have a borderline migraine right now and this white screen is killing my eyes)

I came to this site, when I noticed Sinker's signature on another site that included a link to this one. I am VERY glad that I did. I had grown very tired of all of the flaming, bickering and bad attitudes on that one.

As this site grew larger, I feared that with more members, some of that element would begin to show up. With larger numbers it is bound to happen. However, the frequency at which I am seeing it here is becoming alarming.

I don't think the problem is with entirely with newbies. However, some of them, many of them lately it seems, come onto this site with no other apparent reason other than to stir up trouble.
Bottom line, is that there definitely seems to be some "us vs. them" camps among members on this site.

From what I am seeing, there are some individuals, (I won't name names so don't even ask) who seem to think that people who don't fit a certain mold deserve to be the target for flaming, ridicule, and downright disrespect. Those of you doing this know who you are. If you don't it is either so obvious you are looking right past it or you are being deliberately obtuse.

Bottom line, is that this site originated and succeeded because it welcomed an atmosphere of respect and civility. Some people seem to be determined to rock the boat. I think if you will read the posts from the vast majority of members, you will see that this type of behavior is not welcome here.

Nobody is perfect, especially me. This site would be completely boring if everybody always agreed on everything. Debate and discussion, even if it gets heated, can be tactful and done in a respectful way that does not target an individual personally.

I don't worry about things getting out of hand because our mods are the best you will find anywhere, and they understand the essence of this site perfectly.

I know I'm rambling so I will wind this up.

I love Get Bent. I haven't had the time to post much lately, (though I have looked in from time to time) due to work and family commitments but that is starting to change. To those of you who know me, I am still the same guy you always knew, and you will be seeing a lot more of me.

To the people who get off on causing problems, I have one request:

Grow up, or leave it you don't like it.

To everyone else I have one request:

Lets fish, I am having withdrawals!!!!

Later everyone!!
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Old 09-26-2007, 08:25 PM   #52 (permalink)
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Oh, and Ding, I don't think you are making too much out of this at all. It was a good topic to bring up. It is nice to have a little self examination once in a while.

Uh, wait that didn't come out right. Did it, well, uh,...

Oh, nevermind!!!!!
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Old 09-26-2007, 08:55 PM   #53 (permalink)
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The reason I came to this site is that I am completely uninterested in the BS that goes on over at Bloody Decks. This site is just flat out more fishing oriented. It's just too hard to tell what the orientation of BD is! I don't mind going over to BD for a few laughs or to PM a few others I stay in touch with down South.

Make no mistake, GB is nowhere near becoming BD. People actually talk about fishing here. Too many computer fishermen experts over there.
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Old 09-26-2007, 09:23 PM   #54 (permalink)
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geez, everyones getting all mushy. I love the site too but are we gonna change it to GetGay.com?

Lets move on and talk about fishing.

p.s. i love you too man
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Old 09-26-2007, 09:30 PM   #55 (permalink)
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LOL!!!!
freakin joker!
Dont get Joey going about gay now..
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Old 09-26-2007, 09:38 PM   #56 (permalink)
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Both Get Bent and BD have their following to be sure.......I like this place because it is pretty mellow and there is some good info put up on these boards.

BD is not for the faint of heart......it can get a bit dicey but that is part of the deal on BD.

The mods do a great job of keeping things in line over here.

Thanks for an alternative site.
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Old 09-26-2007, 10:10 PM   #57 (permalink)
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GRACIAS !!!
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Old 09-27-2007, 04:35 AM   #58 (permalink)
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Lets move on and talk about fishing.
I'm with him!!!
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Old 09-27-2007, 05:58 AM   #59 (permalink)
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FINAL THOUGHTS

First this was a needed and good thread. If a member can not voice concern about the way the site is running or headed then we have lost something very special to us because WE DO CARE.

For others to just write it off is not the way WE or this site operates.

WE are growing and WILL experience growing pains and occasional idiots that come by to cause trouble.

With comfort comes complacency. Meaning simply that as members become more comfortable both here on the site and with other members their posts tend to have or hint to inside jokes, stories etc. and / or they just become more lax with their wording. It is not always easy to get the TRUE color of a post simply from the text alone, this is why we must re-read what we write before hitting that magical Submit Reply button.

NICHE. Yep, every web site, or successful web site needs their own niche. Get Bent has never really had one other than believing in the Brotherly Bond Of Fishing, being civil to one another and trying to stay somewhat focused on the subject at hand. Other sites, such as BD has a niche as well and it just happens that BD is most anything goes. Nothing wrong with that at all, not for some people. This thread was not started to knock them by any means but rather to question and look at ourself. For the record we like BD and appreciate the assistance they have offered to us in the past.

REMEMBER we all can still learn. Anglers who have been fishing their entire lives have learned valuable information from folks who went out on their very first fishing trip. YES, it can and DOES happen. I get a kick out of thing here as we have some members who are professional fishermen, meaning simply this is how they make their living, fishing competitively. Just because it says newbie under their user-name doesn't mean anything more than how many posts they have.

WE / Get Bent asks only simple things from its members. Be polite and courteous to one another, help others out, remember when we are out fishing we represent ALL fishermen so set a good example and higher standard for the others to follow.

THINGS HAVE CHANGED. That's right. They have and that is just a fact. It is partially due to the amount of members but not completely. We started this site and all were welcome with open arms and friendships, good friendships were made. Needed a favor, you just asked. I must say I was sorely disappointed a few months back when I put up a post asking for a West Coaster to offer up a trip for a guy from the East Coast who was working out in Los Angeles and spending all his weekends in his hotel room as he had NO CLUE where to go or what to do. NO ONE came through for him - definitely not the site of the past. Another was out during the unofficial BBQ, showed up and just felt awkward so he left, I must say his personality though is not one to walk up and say HI so who knows, but, the first one bothers me.

Notice when Joey and I speak about the site we TRY to use the words WE and OURS inside of I, mine, etc., etc. as we indeed realize this is a COMMUNITY site, OUR site, ALL OF OURS and it will only be WHAT WE MAKE OF IT.

Again, please visit the ABOUT US section of this site and read what is there.

We have had a recent rash of folks who have come here to cause trouble, some are just jerks, others are from another site who wants to see us fail and cause us trouble and some are banned members who finally got re-registered and want to cause trouble in a way of seeking revenge. This IS NOT the only folks who have been out of line though. WE ALL do from time to time.

I am going to start a few new thread about how you met specific members - PLEASE CONTRIBUTE TO THESE THREADS.

This thread will now be closed. Time to move on, fish, take pictures and share the story and pictures with the rest of us.
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